A gefe guda, kuzarin yau da kullun, kamar jiya, yana tsaye ne ga ikon iyali, ga al'umma kuma don haka wani bangare ne na nunin haɗin kai. A gefe guda kuma akwai kuzarin yau da kullun, amma har ma don gane munanan akida da ƙwaƙƙwaran mutum. Dangane da haka, akwai wasu abubuwa a rayuwarmu da muke kallo ta mahangar mara kyau da sauran abubuwan da muke kallo ta mahangar kyawawa. A ƙarshe, wannan hangen nesa koyaushe yana dogara ne akan daidaita tunaninmu.

Canza yadda kuke kallon abubuwa

A cikin wannan mahallin, namu tunanin ba tabbatacce ba ne ko mara kyau a yanayi. A ƙarshen rana, waɗannan sanduna biyu, watau masu kyau da mara kyau, suna tasowa ne kawai daga tunaninmu, inda muke kimanta kuzari daban-daban, watau yanayin rayuwa, ayyuka da abubuwan da suka faru, mai kyau ko mara kyau. Duk abin da muke ɗauka a matsayin tabbatacce ko ma mara kyau a cikin duniyar waje yana a ƙarshen rana ko da tsinkaya ne kawai na halinmu na ciki. Mutanen da ba su gamsu da rayuwarsu ba, alal misali, sai su gabatar da nasu rashin gamsuwa a cikin duniyar waje kuma suna ganin komai a matsayin nasu kawai na rashin gamsuwa. Don haka tunaninku mai mugun nufi ya haifar da gaskiya, wanda kuma shi ke siffanta shi da mummunan hangen nesa. Duk da haka, za mu iya canza yadda muke ganin abubuwa, domin ya dogara ga kanmu kawai yadda muke ganin duniyar waje. Za mu iya yin abin da ya dace kuma a koyaushe muna zabar wa kanmu ko muna kallon abubuwa ta mahangar madaidaici ko kuma daga mahangar mara kyau. Don haka, a yau ma ya kamata mu mai da hankali ga abin da har yanzu muke kallo daga mahangar mara kyau da abin da ba haka ba. Da zaran mun fahimci wani abu a matsayin rashin jituwa, sai mu zama masu tunani sosai, alal misali, nuna yatsa ga wasu kuma muna iya yin fushi ko kuma muna da hali mara kyau. Yanzu ya kamata mu fahimci wannan sannan mu tambayi dalilin da yasa muke kallonsa ta wannan mahangar mara kyau.

Duniya ba kamar yadda take ba, amma kamar yadda kuke. Don haka tunanin ku da tunanin ku koyaushe suna bayyana a cikin duniyar waje..!!

Sa’ad da muka fahimci hanyoyin tunaninmu masu halakarwa ne kawai za mu iya canza su. Sa'an nan ne kawai za mu iya sake canza ra'ayinmu game da abubuwa. A cikin wannan ma'ana zauna lafiya, farin ciki da rayuwa cikin jituwa.